Fai Kur is a Certified Sex Therapist specialising in sex therapy, behavioural science, and sexual health. Her work examines the physiological and neurological mechanisms underlying sexual function and dysfunction. Bridging scientific research and lived experience. She integrates physiology, nervous system processes, and learned patterns within each person’s history and relationships to support deeper insight and meaningful, evidence-informed change.

Too tired to have sex

IS AVOIDING SEX EXHAUSTING YOU?

Feeling too tired for sex is common, but it is not always just about exhaustion. Stress, mental load, relationship dynamics, hormones, nervous system overload, and patterns of avoidance can all affect sexual desire and responsiveness. This article explores why intimacy can start to feel difficult, distant, or like another task, and what can help reconnect desire, energy, and closeness.

Why don't I ever feel like having sex

Why Don’t I Want To Have Sex?

What’s Stopping You From Desiring Sex? If you have ever lusted over someone, longed for their touch, craved their sexual attention, bathed in the seduction and overwhelming intensity of their gaze …then you may have also experienced the cold, very strong gut wrenching moment when your partner no longer feels that same way towards you,…

STAY SAFE IN LOVE AND SEX

Do Seniors Need To Worry About Safe Sex?

SAFE SEXIS NOT A 'YOUNG PEOPLE' THINGSeniro Sex The health benefits of regularly having sex are well known. Recent research has found that sex in the golden years can help prevent memory loss and confusion, including evidence that suggests that those who are sexually satisfied are more likely to have a sharper, more “younger” mind.…

Sex Therapy, Can a sex therapist help me learn how to orgasm

Why Can’t I Orgasm?

Learn How To Orgasm If you’re struggling to Orgasm you are not alone Every week, two to three new clients walk into my room to discuss their personal struggles with achieving an orgasm. I can feel their pain, their sadness, and their disappointment. They are embarrassment by their inability to orgasm. But they push through…

Which lubricant should I use?

TYPES OF LUBRICANTS

Not all personal lubricants are the same! Whether you’re looking for water-based, silicone-based, oil-based, or hybrid options, each type has its own benefits and best uses. In this article, we break down the key differences to help you choose the right lubricant for your needs.