Fai Kur is a Certified Sex Therapist specialising in sex therapy, behavioural science, and sexual health.
Her work examines the physiological and neurological mechanisms underlying sexual function and dysfunction. Bridging scientific research and lived experience.
She integrates physiology, nervous system processes, and learned patterns within each person’s history and relationships to support deeper insight and meaningful, evidence-informed change.
What Actually Creates Sexual Desire? Most people have a reasonable understanding of sexual triggers. Visual stimulation, physical attraction, touch, novelty, and fantasy all contribute to arousal. These are the inputs. But there is a more interesting question underneath: Why do different men experience dramatically different levels of desire in response to the same stimulus? Imagine…
You may still feel desire, attraction, and arousal, yet notice that erections are slower to develop, less rigid, or require more stimulation than they once did. This article explains how age-related changes in nitric oxide signalling, blood vessels, nerves, hormones, and erectile tissue can alter erectile function, even in otherwise healthy men.
Progesterone plays a key role in regulating the nervous system states that support sexual desire, arousal, sensation, and orgasm. During perimenopause and menopause, declining or fluctuating progesterone can affect arousal stability, sensory integration, and orgasmic timing even when genital tissue health is preserved.
Genital Blood Flow and Sexual Response The biological reason that estrogen helps support blood flow to the genitals is multifaceted, involving direct effects on blood vessels and the maintenance of healthy genital tissues. As estrogen levels decline during menopause, this support system weakens, leading to a cascade of changes that can diminish sensitivity, arousal, and…
Explore the physiological link between hormonal shifts and sexual desire. This guide explains how fluctuations in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone during perimenopause and menopause impact libido, offering clarity on the physical and emotional changes involved.
Menopause, Desire, and Intimacy Here’s an overview of how these hormones are affected during menopause and how they contribute to libido changes. Hormonal Changes — sometimes subtle, sometimes roaring. Here are a few ways these changes may unfold. 1. When Touch Feels Different(Vaginal Dryness and Tissue Changes) As estrogen levels decline, your body produces less…
Explore how nitric oxide drives sexual arousal via vasodilation and uncover the latest research comparing L-Citrulline and L-Arginine supplements for boosting NO—plus guidance on supplementation for aging and performance
Learn how nitric oxide supports erections, the link with folic acid and endothelial health, and whether L-arginine or L-citrulline supplements can help.
ED after radical prostatectomy is often linked to nerve injury. This article explains how nerve damage affects erections and sexual function.
Learn effective penile rehabilitation strategies to prevent penile fibrosis and scarring after nerve injury or prostate surgery. Discover how to maintain blood flow and support erectile function recovery.
When nerve signalling changes, erectile tissue adapts. Understand penile hypoxia, fibrosis, and endothelial dysfunction in clear terms.
The LEEP procedure is a treatment used for removing abnormal cervical cells, but some patients have reported sexual and emotional problems. Issues such as decreased sexual desire, can’t orgasm pain and discomfort with sex, and concerns about reproductive health have been noted.
Why does vaginismus feel like burning? Learn how muscle tension, nerve sensitivity, and inflammation cause pain and discover ways to find relief.
Why does vaginismus feel like burning? Learn how muscle tension, nerve sensitivity, and inflammation cause pain—and discover ways to find relief.