- Do you find you often can’t ejaculate when having sex?
- Is this causing problems in your sex life and relationships?
Having sex ought to be the best fun there is, so it’s distressing and embarrassing to find that you are not getting to climax when you expect. You know how it goes – your partner has climaxed and now you feel there’s a kind of pressure on you to ‘finish’. A little voice in your head rattles on and on: “Will I? Won’t I?” And even the most patient and loving partner can get fed up eventually…
Of course, not climaxing happens sometimes anyway, to everyone. If occasionally either partner doesn’t reach orgasm when they expect, it doesn’t automatically mean there’s anything wrong. Or that there’s anything to worry about. But if it’s happening a lot, or all the time, it’s frustrating for you and your partner, and it and it can put you or your partner right off sex.